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Sunday, August 25, 2019


August 25, 2019 – Couple of bites of Southern flavor

         Bite No. 1.

         “I am starting to act Southern,” I said to a friend meeting her at The Pie Factory in Downtown Forest City, North Carolina. 

         The Pie Factory is at the corner of Cherry Mountain Street and West Main Street and sports the famous clock that is often used as a Forest City Icon.  The establishment was a bank – in fact construction work began 7/31/1925 and The National Bank of Forest City moved into the building in 1926.  J. D. Ledbetter was a co-founder of the bank.  Tomorrow’s blog is the history of J. D. Ledbetter, The Ledbetter House and about the bank building in great detail.

         The three-story height corner building is built of Pennsylvania iron slag brick and in the center back of the first floor is the vault which is equipped with a door weighing 18 tons.  The vault door is impressive and visible to the patrons. 

         Over the last 30 years, it has been many things, including a bank. I, being a fan of old buildings and history, opened an account there, just because of the building even though parking was not always convenient.  The tellers were beyond “downhome friendly” and always called me by name – of course I loved it – who wouldn’t – made me feel “local” during those transactions.

         The day I went to meet my friend, it was a hot – hot August day, the humidity hung in the air.  My hair was already limp, my makeup ruined by beads of sweat and I’d only left my house, and driven five minutes to the Mooneyham Library in Forest City in my air conditioned car.  

         I immediately started to “hunt” for a parking place under a shade tree – something I rarely do. But when it is blazing hot – even I, a born New Englander understand the difference between a car parked in the sun and a car parked in the shade.  I snagged a shaded parking space and had to deal with the low hanging crepe myrtle branches getting out of and back into my car; but I was thankful for same at almost the noonday hour.

         I re-traced my drive from the library down the quaint Main Street of Forest City and snagged another shaded parking place to meet my friend.  Walking into the high ceiling original bank building, now The Pie Factory, the first thing you notice is the magnificent space, the architecture, and the incredible aroma of the pies lined up in the glass cabinets.

         I bellied up to the cash register and ordered an ice coffee and it was so refreshing as I sat and waited and thought about the history of the place. I’d make a decision on which pie to taste when my friend got there.

          When my friend arrived, Becky, she muttered about the heat, too and greatly understood my comment about parking in the shade.

         “Yes, when you live in a place long enough – you start to act like the locals.”

         Bite No. 2

         I noticed a framed Southern poem on the wall opposite where you place a to-go order at the old BBQ restaurant now turned Fish place west of the Catholic Church.

         Waiting for my to-go order, I had the time to copy it down as it captures the local flavor.  I did not see an author’s name;  I hope you enjoy.

The South . . the place where . . .
everyone is family,
there are no strangers,
just people you haven’t met yet.
The tea is sweet,
words are long,
days are warm, and
faith is strong. 
Growing up in the South
is a privilege.
It’s more than loving sweet tea,
fried chicken, college football,
and hunting.
It’s about being devoted to God,
long farm fields, front porches and
each other.

[unknown author]

Saturday, August 24, 2019


August 24, 2019 – Tuesday’s child full of grace

         Earlier this month I was signing up for insurance and in the process of watching the gentlemen who was assisting me key my personal information in, I leaned in to view the monitor to verify what he was typing. 

         He asked me what my birth date was. It was a normal question as most insurance policies ask that information, and I tossed it out easily like a handful of small change into a fountain.

         “Do you happen to know what day of the week you were born?”  He asked with raised eyebrows.  Now that wasn’t  a normal question, but I tossed my answer back at him quickly.

         “Tuesday. Tuesday’s child full of grace,” pausing a moment to add, “at 10:56 p.m. or was it 10:54, maybe 10:52 p.m. – I think.  I am fuzzy on the minutes, but I know I’m close.”

         He said, “Watch,” as he pointed his cursor arrow on a calendar icon and clicked it and the month of my birth calendar popped onto the screen confirming I truly am a Tuesday child.

         He smiled and as I was piqued by this exchange, I softly whispered to him across the desk, “How many people know the answer to that?”

         “Most,” he shrugged.

         Later in the day, I couldn’t help but mull that moment over as I was driving over to Polk County to enroll in an upcoming writing class.  It was a beautiful day for a drive and I went the direct route out HWY 74 to Columbus and came back the scenic Route 108 on the way back.  I rolled that memory of my childhood and even adulthood when I’d ask that time-worn question of my mother,

         “Tell me about the day I was born.”

         Mom always answered starting with,

         “Tuesday’s child full of grace,” and how my Aunt Yvonne and Uncle John were visiting that afternoon.  Mom got up and without any fanfare took a shower and dressed. Dad was called home from work and drove her to the hospital in the next town where I was born leaving Aunt Yvonne and Uncle John to babysit my two older brothers.  [It is easily understood that Yvonne is my middle name and I love the reason for that middle name as well as how unusual it is.  See NOTE:]
        
         I also thought of the people who had never had a chance to ask that question of their parents.  What a lost piece of personal history that must be to not know one’s grand entrance into this world.

         Later in the day I asked that strange question of my brother. 

         “Heck I don’t know, why?”

         I told him the about the interesting moment.

         “I got it right, you don’t know? Well I will look it up for you.  I am sure the computer has a perpetual calendar.  I bet your baby book has it.”

         “I have no clue where that would be,” he answered.

         “Mom sent me mine about 10 or 15 years ago, I run up on it each time I clean drawers or cabinets. But, I too can’t put my hands on it right away.  I bet she put the time down – I am certain of it.”

         “Is that on your birth certificate, I wonder,” he replied.

         “Don’t know.”

         I told him I’d find out and get back to him, so I am.

         The traditional poem used to teach young children the days of the week in a sing-song way is below:

         Monday’s child is fair of face
         Tuesday’s child is full of grace
         Wednesday’s child is full of woe
         Thursday’s child has far to go
         Friday’s child is loving and giving
         Saturday’s child works hard for his living
         And the child that is born on the Sabbath Day
         Is bonny and blithe, and good and gay.

         1838 (first printed source) version above
         Published in St. Nicholas Magazine, 1873


         Brother Ken, you were born on Sunday: Bonny and blithe, and good and gay.

If you don’t know your birthday of the week, below are useful tools to find out.

NOTE:  I phoned my Aunt Yvonne, one of the last of the four people alive that knows the intimate story of my birth date, and she confirmed all that I wrote above.   Your own personal history is so moving when you reminisce, but it is good to verify the facts.


See Wikipedia for poem info: https://www.infoplease.com/calendar/195101

Link to a perpetual calendar:  www.infoplease.com/calendar


        

Sunday, August 18, 2019

BLOG Index September 2019 through August 2019


Index September 2018 and August 2019



AUGUST 2018


August 1, 2018
“I am not allowed to ask that question.”
August 2, 2018
Wisp of a memory of a checkerboard wood bowl
August 3, 2018
Funny thing, I do the same thing.
August 4, 2018
The context of a word – oligarch
August 5, 2018
Puddle walking
August 6, 2018
Hacks is now the word for tips and tricks?
August 8, 2018
Status, bit of this and that
August 9, 2018
Uncertainty, Stress, Change?
August 10, 2018
You know you are a gardener when . . .
August 21, 2018
Writer’s project for August
August 22, 2018
Lost and Found in Two Acts
August 23, 2018
Re-shrub or no shrubs at all
August 24, 2018
By product of removing shrubs – potential end table
August 25, 2018
First section of planting new front foundation
August 26, 2018
Not as I do, but as I say
August 27, 2018
Nomenclature, or what is in a name
August 28, 2018
Re-landscaping foundation without shrubs
August 29, 2018
The grocery bag trick – revisited
August 30, 2018
Revisiting Kondo’s tidying book
August 31, 2018
Fast tip/trick – sort of a slight of hand & Index

September 2018

September 2, 2018
The newest project – cement ramp into shed
September 3, 2018
Finished the ramp and started on the brick pavers
September 8, 2018
Bit of this and that, on pause, and then cute
September 18, 2018
Kudzu eradication started September 11, 2018
September 19, 2018
A funny moment
September 20, 2018
September’s Writing Group assignment
September 21, 2018
Aftermath of Hurricane Florence
September 22, 2018
Electronic subscription? Mistake or . . . .
September 23, 2018
“I have actually been writing in my mind my whole life.”
September 24, 2018
I took some flak from yesterday’s blog
September 25, 2018
Side dish – just some pondering thoughts
September 26, 2018
The delight of late summer roses
September 27, 2018
Another miscommunication – HUH?
September 28, 2018
Was it coincidence or heaven-sent?
September 29, 2018
Is sleep important?
September 30, 2018
New cleaning tips – I am currently trying





October 2018


October 4, 2018
Index August 2018 and September 2018
October 9, 2018
Failure – or the Mulligan concept
October 14, 2018
“How do you know how to do that?”
October 15, 2018
Writing Class Assignment- The Matchmaking old pickup truck
October 17, 2018
Bait and Switch?
October 18, 2018
“I did a Barbara!”
October 19, 2018
The first anniversary of Mom’s death
October 20, 2018
Kudzu eradication – update
October 21, 2018
Spotlight on Jasmine, my cat



November 4, 2018


November 4, 2018
Tiger lilies revisited
November 5, 2018
President Trump and “Where have you been?”
November 6, 2018
Newspaper delivery service
November 7, 2018
“And then . . . I cancelled my account.”
November 11, 2018
September Morn
November 13, 2018
Assort Book Reviews  - Tucker Carlson; Judge Jeanine Pirro; Jerome R. Corsi; Gregg Jarrett; The Loners’ Manifesto and Colette
November 14, 2018
The charm of the movie Casablanca
November 15, 2018
Snow – a bit early . . .
November 20, 2018
It is getting to be a lot like Christmas . . .
November 21, 2018
I’m a food snob about cranberry relish.



December 2018


December 3, 2018
“ . . . the kindness of strangers.”
December 4, 2018
Furoshiki [fabric wrapping], Tiramisù, and rubber bank hacking
December 11, 2018
Does grief ever end?
December 21, 2018
The Robitussin Bear commercial
December 30, 2018
The end of the year wrap up.
December 31, 2018
The cure for a rough year.



January 2019


January 2, 2019
Organizing and a few craft/sewing tips
January 7, 2019
Hearts have it hands down
January 8, 2019
Ever thought of “detailing” your refrigerator?
January 10, 2019
“Would you like a cup of tea?”
January 9, 2019
Am I in the fog, or what?
January 11, 2019
The word “woke”.
January 12, 2019
Out with the old . . . then we start with paint.
January 13, 2019
That looks familiar since I am the artist
January 23, 2019
Monique’s replacement
January 25, 2019
Food is love & Niçoise salad recipe
January 26, 2019
Girl power
January 27, 2019
The color of paint . . .
January 28, 2019
“When are you going to rehang the curtains?”
January 29, 2019
Yo Yos – dressing up a pillow



February 2019


February 1, 2019
I will be “dark” for a few days
February 5, 2019
I am back – computer reconnected
February 6, 2019
What is the point of having nice things if you are afraid to use them?
February 7, 2019
Bumped into something interesting
February 23, 2019
Times flies when it rains
February 24, 2019
Unexpected Power Outage
February 27, 2019
Chocolate in TWO ACTS
February 28, 2019
The purloined wheelbarrow



March 2019


March 1, 2019
“You might need to know this . . . “
March 6, 2019
Clear out – as the English say and Rattlesnake eggs
March 14, 2019
“How’s the writing going,” my dear brother asked,
March 15, 2019
“Margaret is not my name . . .”
March 16, 2019
A quote and this and that
March 17, 2019
Happy St. Patrick’s Day everyone
March 17, 2019
Fast Thinking
March 20, 2019
Trees down – and new gardens to plan



April 2019


April 2, 2019
It is only one brick at a time
April 11, 2019
Empty spool of thread
April 12, 2019
I thought they were cookies . . .




May 2019


May 13, 2019
Lovely day – Mother’s Day weather wise
May 21, 2019
Little secret – No-see-ums
May 22, 2019
Old, refurbished, now new
May 31, 2019
“That was clever . . .”



June 2019


June 1, 2019
Cat magazine – should I?
June 2, 2019
Joie de vivre
June 16, 2019
Inadvertence
June 21, 2019
The eyes have it
June 22, 2019
The broken foot – the ordeal begins; my wings have been clipped.



July 2019


July 12, 2019
I miss the simple things in life . . .
July 13, 2019
Elvin McDonald – legendary garden editor & author
July 15, 2019
Gomphrena – wonderful flower for drying
July 16, 2019
Easy peasy lemon squeezy
July 18, 2019
Behind Door No. 1 – writing prompt essay
July 19, 2019
Pen mightier than the sword – writing prompt essay
July 20, 2019
“Not yet!”



August 2019


August 1, 2019
Back on my two feet again & Emily Dickinson
August 2, 2019
Book review: Still Winning by Charles Hurt
August 8, 2019
Out with the old, in with the new technology