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Saturday, December 14, 2019


December 14, 2019 – Reindeer slippers

         Last year for writer’s group we had to produce something with a Christmas theme.  I forgot to put it on my blog last year, and I do it now.

         I created a Haiku [Japanese Poetry] poem, which has the traditional 17 syllables with three phrases of typically 5, 7, and 5.

         Of course, this was new for me trying to write it, but then I had heard Haiku on a few occasions and found them interesting.

         Drum roll:

I am infused with
unchecked delight of a child
by reindeer slippers.

        Now for, the laugh - rather your laugh.  That tiny little bit of poetry took me an entire day to write. 

        Those silly little reindeer slippers I have had for about 20+ years and they delight me.  They actually do get me into the Christmas spirit, unlike baking cookies that don’t “make” for the Church bake sale.

        Years ago – between jobs – oh yes, I have been unemployed on many occasions – most have not been my choice, and I was on “scare money” and didn’t dare ask for anything for myself out of the household money.  Those that have lived on skinny money know what I am talking about, scared that you have an emergency and you don’t have any cash on hand at all.

        When I happened to see these silly reindeer slippers with the face of a reindeer as the front of the slipper including red nose, brown/black pupil eyes, ears, and gold lame antlers and they even have a sprig of holly leaves with red berries done in felt tacked to one ear, I turned to my husband in KMart or WalMart and begged him to buy them. He nodded and smiled, you see, Santa lives with me.

        They cover only my toes and the back is open, and they are toasty warm and absolutely silly.

        They bring out the inner child in me who really does like Christmas – or at least the Christmas of one’s wishes where everything is perfect, absolutely everything perfect, which is close to impossible, mind you.

        The bottoms of the slippers were getting holes in them and last winter when I tucked them away in my ornament box I said, “Self, you need to put new bottoms on them somehow.”

        So, a couple of days go, I fluffed the wreaths to put out at the front and back of the house, and checked the tree lights – all but one strand was dead and all had to be taken off and replaced.  When that was done, I turned my attention to the slippers and made a photo copy of the bottom of each worn out sole to use as patterns.

        I proceeded to cut some of that wonderful cream colored felted blanket from the patterns and I blanket stitched them to the slipper soles.  Darn, they look like new, just like they fell off Santa’s sleigh. They just might make it another 20 years if I don’t run out in the snow or something crazy.

        When I am not using them on my feet, I tuck them under the pillow shams on my bed for a bit of whimsy. Later in the day, when I enter the room, I look at them, yes, they are cute, cute, cute.

        Everyone needs a bit of whimsy and mine happens to be on my feet keeping my feet toasty warm.


Sunday, March 19, 2017

March 19, 2017 – Perspective – mine changes – does yours?

Perspective – Noun
       
A particular attitude toward a way of regarding something; a point of view.

Synonyms:
outlook
view
viewpoint
point of view
stand point
position
stand
stance
angle
slant
attitude
frame of mind
frame of reference
approach
way of looking
interpretation

Example: Her perspective on things has changed.

        Maybe my husband and I have had a different perspective about life than other people since we first met.    

        Early in our dating years he said, “I’m broke, we might as well be completely broke,” as he took me out to dinner when life was looking bad, things were difficult, and life was at that moment particularly tough for us. We could only see the dark clouds and no silver linings peeking out. He’d fish out the last large bill that was folded up in his wallet for emergencies and blew it on taking us out to dinner some place nice.   It sort of was like magic – we went out to dinner enjoying it as if it would be our last dinner out for many months and then – there was a miraculous turnaround of our fortunes.

        When we are just about dead broke we also seem to buy something “unnecessary”.  I have a house full of things that are “unnecessary items” that we bought when we were scrapping the bottom of the money barrel.  Two items come to mind instantly . . . a pair of parachute [because of the fabric] bunnies which are Easter decorations that we fell over looking around a new store and my silly Christmas Reindeer slippers from the original Wal Mart store here in town.

        I brought the parachute bunnies – a large one and a small one out from storage so that I can change over from St. Patrick’s Day decorations to Easter decorations.  As soon as I did, my husband said,

        “I remember those, we were flat broke when we got them.” He smiled thinking of the memory.

        I answered, “Yes, just like those silly Reindeer slippers.” And, he nodded agreement.

        I was unemployed at both times and I’d always ask like a little kid, “Can we afford these?”  

My husband always opened up his wallet because he knew it would bring me great joy at little expense.  Maybe he felt it would turn the tide of our lives at the same time.

It has to do with our perspective on life – when things look down now, we are certain it will be better.  We are sure of it. We have faith.  Everything happens for a reason, including downturns.

So, it became a tradition when either of us lost a job we would go out to dinner to “celebrate” because things happen for a reason - God’s reason.  God has his hand in all things in our lives and things always turn around – after a bit – sometimes a little longer than we would like, but that is only making us “stronger” for the next “surprise” of life so to speak.

Right now I am waiting to be called back to work at a seasonal job and I am keeping it in “perspective”.  Maybe I won’t be called back and God has his hand in there again making plans that I am unaware of . . . maybe there is something new and different and exciting coming my way.  I am in solitude thinking about things, thinking about everything and then some.  I actually am waiting for the “other shoe to drop” so that I know what is next.

It is hard sometimes to keep an open mind about these sort of “detours” or “road blocks” in my life, but I should be used to it by now. That brings me to the synonyms – outlook through interpretation.  I am looking at this situation through the prism of every one of those synonyms listed above.

Mary Sarton seemed to describe it better than I could ever describe it in her book, Journal of a Solitude:

“Life comes in clusters, clusters of solitude, then a cluster when there is hardly time to breathe.”

I best enjoy the solitude - something tells me I will be out of breath in a month or two.