October 10, 2016 - This is a family heirloom story that is not yet complete.
I
have the beginning, the first chapter, the second chapter, but not the ending
yet.
This
story starts way back before I was born, even before my parents were
married. My parents were engaged to be
married the same year of my maternal grandparents’ 25th wedding
anniversary.
Mom
and Dad went to a fancy jewelry store on High Street in Clinton, Massachusetts,
called Stewart & Henney to buy a special gift for my Mom’s parent’s special
occasion. They bought a sterling silver
on crystal creamer and sugar set and presented it to Gramma and Grampy
Nixon. I understand it cost them way
more money than they needed to expend at the time – I’ll tell you more about
that later.
Fast
forward 25 years or so:
On
my parents’ 25th wedding anniversary, my grandparents return-gifted
them the same sterling silver on crystal sugar and creamer set back to them.
As
a young woman growing up the very pretty sugar and creamer always graced our
family table at all high holidays: Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. Mom always washed and dried them special by
hand and put them up for safe keeping. I
always admired them.
Fast
forward several years:
I
was living here in Forest City, North Carolina, when I got a package in the
mail from Mom and Dad near our 25th Anniversary. Not unusual getting a gift through the mail
from my parents.
When
I opened the box I got such a surprise.
The 25th anniversary sterling on silver creamer and sugar set
that had graced my parents table during all the holidays all those years had
been double wrapped and arrived safely.
I
immediately called Mom. That day, Mom
told me the history about Stewart & Henney jewelry store on High Street in
Clinton, Massachusetts, and how the gift was way more than they should have
spent, [they were on limited funds at the time], but Dad was like that.
Mom said, “He does
know WHEN to spend big money.” I had
heard that comment before in the past on rare occasions when Dad had given me
an expensive gift. I guessed when Dad
dug deep – he dug really deep for the “important occasions.” That gave me a new appreciation for the pearl
college graduation pin, and a few other things that I thought were expensive at
the time, but now I knew they were
expensive.
Mom also mentioned
that Stewart & Henney’s is now known as Duvarney Jewelers, but it is still
located at the same location on High Street in Clinton, Massachusetts. They still trade there.
The gift reflected 75
years of marriage at that point just as a celebration gift for three couples on
their respective 25th anniversaries. It captured the history of my grandparents,
my parents and now me. I was more than
teary eyed. You sure can’t buy that kind
of gift just anywhere – now can you? My
clever Mom knew that.
Every February I take
the set out of my safe keeping and put it on display for the month, as that is
our wedding anniversary month.
Right now the only
married descendant in my family is my Brother Ken’s son who will carry on the
family name. He is married to a lovely
wife and they have two sons – so that will be great lineage of the family name
for future generations.
My plan is near their
25th wedding anniversary to ship this sterling silver on crystal
creamer and sugar set to them which will make a total of 100 years of 25th
anniversary celebrated marital bliss.
That is the plan
anyway. I pray it comes to fruition. I’ve only 15 or 16 more years or so of enjoyment
and safekeeping on my part until then. It will be a great day for our family
heirloom history.
. . . . as I said in the beginning . . . no
ending yet. Please be sure to check back
with me then.
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